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iheartjosh330		#61	[-]
Posts: 2600 (11/14/08 12:34:54) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	I could use some advice. There's this guy in my college english class. He sits in the back and is really quiet, but when we have peer review or interesting discussions, he always has something intelligent to say. He asked me for my number two weeks ago. Because i knew/know nothing about him, I didn't give him my number but said that he could look me up on facebook. He has since added me and I accepted. Anyway, ever since then it's been a little awkward. he doesn't talk to me in real life or on facebook, except for once on facebook but it was a response to something i asked him. I feel bad because i bet he feels quite rejected, and now he has to see me two times a week at class. I don't know much about him, though from the little I do know i think i will never want to date him. But i have nothing against him and would love to just be friends (that may not be possible, i guess it is up to him). So anyway, I guess what I am wondering is what I can do to lessen the awkwardness. Should I just ignore him? He might like that. Or should I be friendly? lol, now that I am writing this all out I think i should just be friendly and if he doens't respond well, i'll stop. Oh well. if you have any tips feel free to let me know. ~Krista~ Be a fan, respect the man. ~~ Wasn't Han Solo encased in Grobanite? -Jimmy Kimmel The Writer's Corner -- Join us! ... Like my avatars? Check them out here!
xBlueOceanx		#62	[-]
Posts: 8 (11/14/08 20:39:01) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	midnightrose1976 wrote: My guess is if he smiles and flirts with you, he is into you, so smile and flirt back . It would be a good way to see what his reaction will be and you will know if he really seems to be interested in you. If he is, you can go from there and won't be embarrassing yourself. You could always drop something casually like mention something about a movie you want to see or something, (a hint, hint ), that has worked for me in the past. Good luck! hmm that does sound like a good idea. I'll have to mention a movie the next time I'm around him. Thanks for the advice
midnightrose1976		#63	[-]
Posts: 858 (11/14/08 22:24:33) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Your welcome and I hope it works out for you . I probably could use some advice myself, my life is filled with "guy problem" issues . Not sure I will spill them just yet, maybe in the future. I seem to avoid the guys that try to get close to me and I get crushes but I don't let them last long. It's all very complicated....scared of bringing on more "risks", I guess. Krista, you answered your own question with the same thing I was thinking . Sounds like the best way to handle it. ~Liz~ JGV-ID #034 ~Josh's Apple and Angel of the Carolinas~ Official Welcome Lady of Josh's Mansion Proud Supporter of Race to a Million www.myspace.com/lizbussey Grobie sis to Lexxa, Tracy, Christine, Gaby, Siena, Ting, Clara, Mary, Rio, Aileen, all Josh's Apples, Angels, and all the inhabitants of the grobie ranch and Josh's mansion
Honeybee		#64	[-]
Posts: 4956 (11/15/08 20:36:14) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	i just feel compelled to state that, i find it both funny, and a tad exasperating, that this guy i work with decides to take interest at a time when im now already involved with someone...and oh, he knows, he knows. psh... guys Mel me: tacos! jamie: i want a taco damn u... i want a taco now
iheartjosh330		#65	[-]
Posts: 2602 (11/17/08 13:44:17) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Theresa, I just want you to know that I saw that I got a PM from you, but right now I'm unable to get into my inbox. Sorry! i'm gonna try to get in as soon as I can fix the problem. If you really want to talk to me, look me up in facebook. ~Krista~ Be a fan, respect the man. ~~ Wasn't Han Solo encased in Grobanite? -Jimmy Kimmel The Writer's Corner -- Join us! ... Like my avatars? Check them out here! Last Edited By: iheartjosh330 12/01/08 16:29:29. Edited 1 times.
iheartjosh330		#66	[-]
Posts: 2607 (11/28/08 08:44:25) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	I read "He's Just Not that Into You." It was a great book! Thanks for telling me about it. It actually clears up a lot of grey areas in my life. ~Krista~ Be a fan, respect the man. ~~ Wasn't Han Solo encased in Grobanite? -Jimmy Kimmel The Writer's Corner -- Join us! ... Like my avatars? Check them out here!
TrigunNerd		#67	[-]
Posts: 1399 (11/28/08 15:34:57) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Tehe. I can't believe I'm really posting here. Well, let's see.~ This is about a guy who used to like me. I was the only girl to ever say yes to a date with him. That was in 8th grade. I'm in 10th now, and he lives in Jersey and I like in Colorado. However, we speak on Facebook. We really are just friends! Which is cool... sometimes... He adores Switchfoot and Skillet and "Scrubs". I hate "Scrubs" with a passion. But I would never ever tell him that!! So I say, "Good for you! I hear it's pretty funny. Not in my taste, but my brothers like it!" But... When I mention things that I like, such as the Beatles or especially the Monkees, his reaction is as follows: "EWWW MONKEES!!!!" ....Seriously, bro? Grow up, will you? What kind of response is that? He CONSTANTLY puts me down for my liking of the Monkees, Beatles, and Newsies. Constantly. He brings it up when I'm not even thinking about them... But today was the final straw. I am more upset than I have been in a long time. Something very dear to my heart is my artwork. I understand that I'm not that great, but I enjoy doing it! But he doesn't think it's worth my time... When I asked if I should give it up, he simply replied, "I dunno maybe"... I was crushed. I'm thinking of giving up artwork forever because it seems like it's not good enough to people. What's the point? But, apart from that, he is seriously getting on my last nerve. I like chatting randomly with him for hours, but he broke my heart today... Get the Monkees IN! http://www.petitiononline.com/Kretch07/petition.html Sign the petition! The Monkees belong in the rock and roll hall of fame! Smokey the pirate: ~Grobie sister to Steph~
iheartjosh330		#68	[-]
Posts: 2609 (11/29/08 06:54:23) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Well my advice would be: why the hell do you care so much what he thinks? If he liked you he would call you, ask you to be his girlfriend, and most of all be kind and supportive of the things you do and enjoy. So he doesn't like you! So why does it matter what he thinks of your artwork? Are you seriously considering quitting art just because one guy said "I dunno maybe"?????????? Please! That's insane. The only way to get better at art it by doing it! Practice all you can, while listening to the monkees!! And try not to talk to this guy so often, he sounds like a tool. ~Krista~ Be a fan, respect the man. ~~ Wasn't Han Solo encased in Grobanite? -Jimmy Kimmel The Writer's Corner -- Join us! ... Like my avatars? Check them out here!
TrigunNerd		#69	[-]
Posts: 1401 (11/29/08 07:08:48) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Ahh, I have NO intention of ever dating this guy. o.o Sorry if it sounded that way. I'd rather eat my legs, actually... XD Thanks for being like that, Krista. ^^ Everyone else seems to calm about the situation, which is a pain in mah donkey. It's not just because of him, though. I guess he just made me snap. I'm sick of showing people my art and having them say, "nice..." I've been speaking with a lot of people and they're saying it's about how I feel about it. And that's great that it is, but I'd just like just a few people to see my art as something to appreciate... I've decided that I'll keep my art away from him and stop talking to him for a while. I sent him a huge message talking about how he's offended me and my friends in a lot of ways. I'm now taking something called the 100 Challenge, where I must draw 100 pictures having to do with a different theme each. It's said to improve your drawing skills, so I'm giving it a try. Thanks a lot, Krista.~ ^^ Get the Monkees IN! http://www.petitiononline.com/Kretch07/petition.html Sign the petition! The Monkees belong in the rock and roll hall of fame! Smokey the pirate: ~Grobie sister to Steph~
iheartjosh330		#70	[-]
Posts: 2610 (11/29/08 08:00:52) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	No problem, I hope I wasn't too brash That 100 challenge sounds good! I'm a painter, but a pretty crappy one at that. And with the business of college, I just haven't had the time to sit down for a day and paint, so a challenge is a great way to "just do it"! ~Krista~ Be a fan, respect the man. ~~ Wasn't Han Solo encased in Grobanite? -Jimmy Kimmel The Writer's Corner -- Join us! ... Like my avatars? Check them out here!
TrigunNerd		#71	[-]
Posts: 1403 (11/29/08 12:26:51) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore User's Posts Report Post	Oh, no. ^^ I'll bet you're not! =3 If you want some the 411 on it, here's the link. ^^ http://www.apforums.com/v...c.php?id=2315&forum_id=11 Get the Monkees IN! http://www.petitiononline.com/Kretch07/petition.html Sign the petition! The Monkees belong in the rock and roll hall of fame! Smokey the pirate: ~Grobie sister to Steph~

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